At some point, everyone realizes that they need to move out of their parent’s house and get their own space and independence. It’s a necessary and important part of growing up. But, that doesn’t make it any easier to decide when the time is right. After all, living at home means your parents take care of you and are always there to help you out.
In reality, you probably know it’s time to move out. But, if you recognize the following signs, it’s definitely time to strike out on your own. For many Australians that’s around 23-24 years old.
Naturally, having the money or having won the prize home lottery will make moving out easier.
1. You Still Have A Curfew
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If you are working full-time, contributing toward the house, and still have to be in at a certain time, then it’s probably time you found your own place.
Living at home with your parents means you’re in their house and need to abide by their rules. That can be difficult as you get older. If it gets to the stage where you’re finding it hard to do so then you need to move, n order to protect the relationship you have with your parents.
2. Lack of Privacy
It can be difficult to have enough privacy at home. Your bedroom will be open and anyone can look at your stuff, especially when you’re not there. You may also find it is difficult to bring dates back as they are likely to be interrogated by the family. That’s a family that knows everything you do.
A lack of privacy when you need it, is a good reason to move out.
3. Long Commute
Finding the right job can be hard and that often means a long commute. Sometimes the length of the commute makes it better value to rent a place closer to work rather than spending so much on commuting. It can be a good sign that you’re ready to strike out on your own.
4. Your Parents Keep Hinting
In some cases, your parents have their own plans and want to do things with their remaining years. That may mean they are better off without you there. If that’s the case they will start dropping hints and you may need to start listening.
If the hints aren’t picked up on the relationship is likely to become strained and that will cause a lot more tension and issues.
5. You Need To See If You Can Survive by Yourself
If you’re not good at cooking, washing, cleaning the house, etc. you may need to move out. This is the best way to learn some of these skills and make sure that you can survive on your own.
While it used to be common to move out and into a marital home, that is no longer the case. Moving out of your parent’s home can be a great way to establish independence and prove to yourself you are capable of living alone.
